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Investments for stay at home moms

Postby Fenrir В» 27.02.2020

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After getting married, I suggested that we keep our own personal bank accounts. I felt joint expenses should be decided jointly, but personal expenses should be personal. He agreed. At first it was easy. I was a lawyer. He was an engineer. We made roughly the same salary. But then I decided to temporarily move to Colorado to help run a marijuana legalization campaign.

I took a pay cut because it was exhilarating to be a part of history. Before I left for Colorado, we spent an afternoon on Mint, setting up allowances for each of our fixed monthly expenses and figuring out how much we could each spend on discretionary expenses.

Especially while living so frugally, it felt good and rebellious to spend some guilt-free cash breaking the advice of every talk show financial adviser. When I returned home to Boston, it was a special occasion when we updated Mint to reflect just one rent expense and two professional-level salaries. That was the plan, anyway, until later that winter when I found out I was pregnant — and a condition called hyperemesis gravidarum a technical term for unrelenting vomiting took over me.

The next few months were a blur. Somewhere between the hospital visits and vomiting, my husband moved us to a smaller apartment so we could manage on one salary until I went back to work.

Around my second trimester, I started to feel a little better. We had to scrimp, but we made the budgets work. We continued to make financial decisions together, and I was sticking to my budget and paying bills out of my account as usual.

It stung; the thought of asking my husband to pay my credit card bill was mortifying. I pictured him looking at the statement and questioning the Sephora charge. Would I have to show him the Dior eyeliner I buy monthly?

He told me to email him the amount I needed. So the next morning, I wrote him a list of line items and amounts. I considered adding a line for my credit card bill. Or even more unnerving, I considered writing separate lines for everything on my credit card bill.

But I realized we had already gone through this process. An hour later an email showed me that he had made the transfer into my account and set an auto-transfer for the same amount every month. So I continued to stay home for a while. That small, personal, no-questions-asked amusement fund has allowed me to maintain my financial dignity.

Not only does that money go exclusively to my personal wants and needs, but I have autonomy over how best to spend it. The thought of asking my husband to pay my credit card bill was mortifying.

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Postby Mazshura В» 27.02.2020

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